05.21.08

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Posted in polyamory tagged at 7:59 am by polyguy

I’ve recently edited a couple of posts for a number of reasons that don’t change, at all, the content of the posts.

First, I screwed up my algebraic formula in this post a bit and I have since corrected it.

Second, I had decided, when I wrote the post above, that it would be the last post to this blog because a big part of me didn’t want to delve any deeper within myself than I already had. I didn’t like what I had come to figure out and, emotionally, a blog was the last thing I wanted to deal with.

After discussing it with my wife, I decided that, for all of our sanity, I should continue to write if for nothing more than the therapeutic value. When I started the blog it was something that I had no intention of sharing with much of anyone, really, unless it was completely anonymous. I don’t consider myself to be a skilled writer and I don’t want or need an “audience” to speak to. I just wanted to get some things out and putting then seeing them in print helps me to do that. So I’ll continue to write. I won’t promise that it will be on a regular basis or that it will be edge-of-your-seat excitement but it will be things that I need to explore about myself. You’re certainly welcomed to watch, comment, criticise, and laugh, if you like, but I’m doing this for me more than anything.

Because of this, I have replaced the initials that I had used in place of names (I hate that whole thing anyway) with nicknames for my wife and our girlfriend. Not only should that be easier for you, it is tremendously easier for me because the two of them have extremely similar first names. Using their first initials is right out so I opted for middle initials instead. Since referring to either of them by their middle names is not something that I do on a regular basis (if ever) I found myself constantly checking then re-checking what I’d written to make sure I hadn’t crossed any wires.

So the content and substance of the posts have not changed, but it’s a bit easier to read and, well, my algebraic formula is now correct. :)

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